Buddhism for MothersAllen & Unwin, 1 mai 2010 - 240 pages Become a calmer and happier mother with Buddhism for Mothers. 'This is an excellent, practical guide to everyday Buddhism not just for mothers, but for everyone who has ever had a mother.' Vicki Mackenzie, author of the bestselling Why Buddhism Parenthood can be a time of great inner turmoil for a woman yet parenting books invariably focus on nurturing children rather than the mothers who struggle to raise them. This book is different. It is a book for mothers. Buddhism for Mothers explores the potential to be with your children in the all-important present moment; to gain the most joy out of being with them. How can this be done calmly and with a minimum of anger, worry and negative thinking? How can mothers negotiate the changed conditions of their relationships with partners, family and even with friends? Using Buddhist practices, Sarah Napthali offers ways of coping with the day-to-day challenges of motherhood. Ways that also allow space for the deeper reflections about who we are and what makes us happy. By acknowledging the sorrows as well as the joys of mothering Buddhism for Mothers can help you shift your perspective so that your mind actually helps you through your day rather than dragging you down. This is Buddhism at its most accessible, applied to the daily realities of ordinary parents. Even if exploring Buddhism at this busy stage of your life is not where you thought you'd be, it's well worthwhile reading this book. It can make a difference. |
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... important and understood . She's creative , spontaneous and quick to laugh because no matter what she's doing , life is play , not work . Buddhism can help us to become more like this mother , a happier kind of mother . It takes time ...
... important and understood . She's creative , spontaneous and quick to laugh because no matter what she's doing , life is play , not work . Buddhism can help us to become more like this mother , a happier kind of mother . It takes time ...
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... important here?' On bad days I notice my daughters automatically repeating themselves as though they know I'm a distant zombie who's not quite there with them. When this happens I know to yank myself back into the present and give them ...
... important here?' On bad days I notice my daughters automatically repeating themselves as though they know I'm a distant zombie who's not quite there with them. When this happens I know to yank myself back into the present and give them ...
Page 13
... important , to be admired , to make our fortune , to have endless sources of excitement . We obsessively pursue our goals , telling ourselves that our lives will be all fixed up once we achieve them . We collect masses of stuff because ...
... important , to be admired , to make our fortune , to have endless sources of excitement . We obsessively pursue our goals , telling ourselves that our lives will be all fixed up once we achieve them . We collect masses of stuff because ...
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... important role as parents ? To what extent are we missing their childhoods by not paying attention in the present moment ? I spoke to one mother who understands the importance of mindful parenting from experiencing a childhood without ...
... important role as parents ? To what extent are we missing their childhoods by not paying attention in the present moment ? I spoke to one mother who understands the importance of mindful parenting from experiencing a childhood without ...
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... important, ignored or invisible. We all do it and there's no need to beat ourselves up about it, only the need to be aware of it and do our best to overcome it. Now I try to treat Zac's voice as an 'ON' switch for my practice of ...
... important, ignored or invisible. We all do it and there's no need to beat ourselves up about it, only the need to be aware of it and do our best to overcome it. Now I try to treat Zac's voice as an 'ON' switch for my practice of ...
Table des matières
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Chapter 3 Finding calm | 41 |
Chapter 4 Dealing with anger | 59 |
Chapter 5 Worrying about our children | 79 |
Chapter 6 Creating loving relationships | 99 |
Chapter 7 Living with partners | 123 |
Chapter 8 Finding happiness and losing our selfimage | 145 |
Chapter 9 Meditating | 165 |
Appendix 1 The noble eightfold path | 202 |
Appendix 2 Helpful books | 206 |
Appendix 3 Helpful websites | 210 |
Appendix 4 From the scriptures | 212 |
Appendix 5 Buddhism for mothers of newborns | 215 |
Bibliography | 219 |
Index | 222 |
Chapter 10 Putting it into practice | 185 |
Autres éditions - Tout afficher
Buddhism for Mothers: A Calm Approach to Caring for Yourself and Your Children Sarah Napthali Aucun aperçu disponible - 2010 |
Expressions et termes fréquents
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