Buddhism for MothersAllen & Unwin, 1 mai 2010 - 240 pages Become a calmer and happier mother with Buddhism for Mothers. 'This is an excellent, practical guide to everyday Buddhism not just for mothers, but for everyone who has ever had a mother.' Vicki Mackenzie, author of the bestselling Why Buddhism Parenthood can be a time of great inner turmoil for a woman yet parenting books invariably focus on nurturing children rather than the mothers who struggle to raise them. This book is different. It is a book for mothers. Buddhism for Mothers explores the potential to be with your children in the all-important present moment; to gain the most joy out of being with them. How can this be done calmly and with a minimum of anger, worry and negative thinking? How can mothers negotiate the changed conditions of their relationships with partners, family and even with friends? Using Buddhist practices, Sarah Napthali offers ways of coping with the day-to-day challenges of motherhood. Ways that also allow space for the deeper reflections about who we are and what makes us happy. By acknowledging the sorrows as well as the joys of mothering Buddhism for Mothers can help you shift your perspective so that your mind actually helps you through your day rather than dragging you down. This is Buddhism at its most accessible, applied to the daily realities of ordinary parents. Even if exploring Buddhism at this busy stage of your life is not where you thought you'd be, it's well worthwhile reading this book. It can make a difference. |
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... don't even have a word for it , she writes .'- Sydney Morning Herald ' If you liked her first book , Buddhism for Mothers , then you'll adore this one . It'll give you a new perspective on parenting and may even help you enjoy it more ...
... don't even have a word for it , she writes .'- Sydney Morning Herald ' If you liked her first book , Buddhism for Mothers , then you'll adore this one . It'll give you a new perspective on parenting and may even help you enjoy it more ...
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... don't have children or perhaps their children present different challenges from ours. Parents with sleepless children tend to be surrounded by parents whose children sleep soundly, just as parents with naughty children feel surrounded ...
... don't have children or perhaps their children present different challenges from ours. Parents with sleepless children tend to be surrounded by parents whose children sleep soundly, just as parents with naughty children feel surrounded ...
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... don't rattle her . She never over- reacts . She's aware of the times when she lacks wisdom or compassion but she doesn't waste days feeling guilty , she might do better next time . She's self - aware , but because she has fostered self ...
... don't rattle her . She never over- reacts . She's aware of the times when she lacks wisdom or compassion but she doesn't waste days feeling guilty , she might do better next time . She's self - aware , but because she has fostered self ...
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... what she had really wanted . I said that she did not seem to know what she wanted . My son smiled and said quietly , ' Mother , you don't understand her . That's all . She does know what she wants — buddhism and motherhood 13.
... what she had really wanted . I said that she did not seem to know what she wanted . My son smiled and said quietly , ' Mother , you don't understand her . That's all . She does know what she wants — buddhism and motherhood 13.
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... don't find lasting happiness — we come up with some more desires . We suffer from desires for what we don't have , but we also suffer from desires to not have what we have . Aversion , the flipside of attach- ment , has the same power ...
... don't find lasting happiness — we come up with some more desires . We suffer from desires for what we don't have , but we also suffer from desires to not have what we have . Aversion , the flipside of attach- ment , has the same power ...
Table des matières
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Chapter 3 Finding calm | 41 |
Chapter 4 Dealing with anger | 59 |
Chapter 5 Worrying about our children | 79 |
Chapter 6 Creating loving relationships | 99 |
Chapter 7 Living with partners | 123 |
Chapter 8 Finding happiness and losing our selfimage | 145 |
Chapter 9 Meditating | 165 |
Appendix 1 The noble eightfold path | 202 |
Appendix 2 Helpful books | 206 |
Appendix 3 Helpful websites | 210 |
Appendix 4 From the scriptures | 212 |
Appendix 5 Buddhism for mothers of newborns | 215 |
Bibliography | 219 |
Index | 222 |
Chapter 10 Putting it into practice | 185 |
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Buddhism for Mothers: A Calm Approach to Caring for Yourself and Your Children Sarah Napthali Aucun aperçu disponible - 2010 |
Expressions et termes fréquents
accept anger angry attachment attention avoid avoid speech aware baby become behaviour body breath Buddha Nature Buddhism for Mothers Buddhist mother Buddhist teachings calm challenges child compassion compassionate concentration Dalai Lama daughter delusion demands develop distract ourselves emotions energy equanimity experience feel felt focus forgive four Noble Truths friends give guilt happiness impermanence inner insight Insight Meditation Society Jack Kornfield judgement karma listen lives look loving kindness meditation mental mind of love mindfully motherhood negative never Noble Eightfold Path Noble Truth notice pain parents partner peace person potential practice practise mindfulness practising Buddhism practising loving kindness present problems relationships remember remind response self-image Shantideva Sharon Salzberg Siddhartha skilful speech someone spiritual path suffering sympathetic joy teacher tension there’s Thich Nhat Hanh things thoughts understand Vicki Mackenzie walk watch words worry